So how intimate can you be with your fiancé? First of all, let’s better articulate the question. How intimate can you be with your fiancé as you honor God? Not, how intimate can you be with your fiancé and not actually sin? There is a difference of intent in these questions.

Steering clear from the cousins of sex, where you draw the line between non-sexual intimacy and sexual intimacy will largely be a function of how you and your fiancé respond to stimuli. What might be romantic to one is arousing for the other.