Boundaries for a couple are vital to their cleaving; on the other hand, boundaries can cause deep hurt in those who are kept out. Causing hurt does not inherently mean that you are dishonoring someone, but bitterness or pride in your heart does.

Wedding hurts are sadly not uncommon in parents of the bride and groom. Keep in mind that this is a time of transition for them, often a time of grieving tangled in a time of celebration. Emotions run high during weddings. A lot of this will have nothing to do with you, but at the same time, your intentions, if not communicated well, can trigger emotions in your parents that you would never have imagined.