Lord Jesus, all that I have is Yours. Thank You for my bounty. Thank You for Your provision. Soften my heart to share what I have with others, and humble me to serve even when I have an opportunity to be honored. I desire to be more like Jesus; use my wedding to make me so. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

How beautiful is the heart of one who serves! Gary Thomas mentions in his book Sacred Pathways a college man who was engaged to be married.  This man had remarked that with the 160 days until his wedding, he would find 160 ways to serve someone.  Rather than counting down to his wedding with self-focused…continued here

If money is an issue, you can still plan with your neighbor in mind by asking yourself what you would want or need if you were the guest. Many of those things do not cost any extra such as providing water as people arrive to the ceremony; making sure there are always chairs for the elderly, pregnant, or injured to sit in; planning your ceremony and reception at places close enough together; or making sure your sound equipment is loud enough and properly placed without blowing out anyone’s ears.